Spaulding was right: no matter how long or short a trip is, 3/4 of the way through, you’re ready to go home. I had that a couple of weeks ago, wanting to sleep in my own bed and see Annie. Now I wish we could stay longer, there is so much we haven’t seen.
It’s a moot point for us now. All the military have just been forbidden to go into restaurants, malls, or any indoor spaces, except for groceries and household necessities. Outdoors is okay, as long as we can keep the social distance of at least 6 feet. Today we drove over to Ikei Island, but Ryan was reluctant to go to any of the beaches there, because the parking lots and entrances are privately owned and were crowded with locals. We had rejected going to any beaches on the bases because we figured they would be crowded with Americans.
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Akuna Beach |
Fortunately Akuna Beach, down gravel and dirt roads through sugar cane fields, was empty. Two young men drove up as we were offloading children, but the slight sprinkle must have discouraged them, as they looked at the water for a few minutes, then left. Not great shelling, mostly broken coral pieces, but with many, many little hermit crabs. Bella says she wants to hold one, then says no just as I go to place it in her palm. We repeat this over and over.
Lunch was convenience store bento boxes in our laps while we sat in a Lawson’s parking lot, and Mary nursed Remi. I told her I had planned to be eating an elegant bento box while riding on a Shinkansen bullet train, looking out at Mt. Fuji, rather than this. I wouldn’t trade these two months with our family for anything. We are so lucky.
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Ancestors’ Tombs |
I knew absolutely nothing about Okinawa, not that I know much more now, however, it has been interesting to see various areas and local structures, then reading about each on the internet. Certainly not as good as any of the guides we’ve had on tours, however, we’re making do. My impression is that this was a fishing and agrarian culture, with pottery and woodworking, but no metal. Very utilitarian.
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Ryukyu Pottery |
Art and decoration don’t seem to be high priority, most of the pottery has the same fish or other shared design. I was surprised hibiscus on many pieces, but I looked it up, and it’s likely a native. It certainly grows everywhere. One shop did have some turquoise square trays with little stars, an homage to the beautiful water and the star sand, (actually exoskeletons of protista,
Baclogypsina sphaerulata, which I hope to find in the ziplock of sand I’m bringing home.) The Ryukyu glass was born from necessity after World War II, when an Okinawan realized they could melt down broken Coke bottles from the military bases and blow new glasses. Beautiful, yet all the shops have the same style and colors.
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Children’s Chairs |
Grant and I had visited a woodcraft shop downtown and loved the irregularly shaped tables made of slabs of wood split in two, then joined as mirror images, sort of like butterfly wings. Bigger than coffee tables, smaller than family dining tables. About $2,000. Fortunately we have our fabulous Amish-made dining table, or I would have tried to figure away to have one shipped. There were also children’s box chairs exactly like the ones my mother had made for each of us when my sisters and I were young. Besides using them as chairs, turning sideways as tables, and stacking as bookshelves, we sat in them on our cross-country trips so we were high enough to see out. The original car seats. A slower and gentler time.
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Helping Bella See the Fish |
We didn’t interact very much with local people, partially due to our natural reluctance with having a newborn in the house, partially due to fear of the dang virus. Everyone was kind and generous.
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Excuse the Mess |
Almost stereotypically polite. Old people, especially grandfathers, would touch Bella, rubbing her hair or patting her hand. One man, without asking, lifted her up to see the fish better at the mall’s aquarium. Mary said that was common. How will they react to any coronavirus personal space restrictions?
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Lucky Me |
I had my hair cut at the local barber shop in anticipation of our going home Monday and not being able to have it cut on the Key for many weeks. The shop specializes in military haircuts, old style, not the new relaxed regulations due to the coronavirus which allows longer lengths so the troops don’t have to visit the barber as often. I thought about just pointing to one of the pictures of a fade, but I was afraid it would put the female barber over the edge. The men had already refused to cut my hair when Grant had showed them my picture and asked. Grant had his hair cut the day before and claims his mustache trim was the most complete he’s ever had. As Mary saw on one of the coronavirus humor sites, no matter how bad it gets, cutting your own bangs is never a good idea. I knew there’d be a point where I’d ask Grant to give me a trim, and it wouldn’t be pretty.